People just ain’t responsible to uphold what love was nowadays.
It’s a word thrown around to explain a feeling but not hold that feeling .
Easily acquired easily discarded , much like a widow mentality, conditionally excuse failure and accept the limits one sets on one self and the standards held high in search of near perfection. There are plenty of metaphors to say “If you love something let it go”; all of them tell you that you can give up and not put effort in a relationship as long as you feed yourself the idea that love is the reason it comes to a halt. None of them tell you that if you put in effort altogether you are bound to maintain that mentality for lengthy periods.
What I think of love these days? I call bullshit when I do not see proof of it .
Love is “magical”.
That is bullshit.
Love is continuous strenuous work to hold on something which makes your life better while adding pieces to it.
Could be all emotional, could be all spiritual, it could be all individual support-system based ( think Claire & Frank from House of Cards), it could be centered around having a stable life or raising children, shit,there’s lots of types.
There is either proof of love coming from a person or proof of lack of it . And you see it in their actions, then words, and quite importantly mentality. Because without these categories being well balanced and worked within, all you have is a phrase without weight , a phrase that is backed up by emptiness and silence.
Karma is hunting me down mercilessly
why so lost